Is there such a thing...?
In search of the answer , let us compare with questions also.
Short stories are short stories , what is meant by with a short stories good ..... ? ?
He said: short stories good is short stories good .
We know if a when we meet a guy / their daughters jesting stable .People like this will bring influence stable to us .
Not after reading example short stories good .We can vicariously the effects of the story.
But , whether it is it just that ?
Whether character stable too complicated and hard to explain , so that we can only answer to: ' personality is a stable personality stabil' if someone man or woman unstable , so what we use to call it .. ?We say she" not stabil' he irritability and lost control .
Nerve in a tense state , and maybe he was stage mental' to collapse.
Do those so may make amends?
We can ....... !
As the title this article ,11 minutes form personality stable .
Because of writers will give 11 the important points probably just 11 minutes finished read .Beginning with the first , to reach stability:
1)peel off your attention of yourself .What do you feel , do you enough sleep night before , how you looked , do your heart rate normal , what menu diet you today.
Do not make yourself too important.Remember ... !
You live in this world with millions of another human of the also to self-determination .
Where in turn later also affects you .You can not just ignoring the world and reality, it is , because what happened in it also very important for where you are . Even you can participate in it .
How limited role played you are that , this can bring a big difference .In short, do not think that you are the bit of the the integral of what happened around you .You may not be as if is an outsider who was stopped by in .
You must have their state of being bring you feel that you were a member this world.
2 ) in relate to the world outside yourself, do not imagine anything your.If you keep asking in yourself how can had to be in a particular situation before you involved in this.Then you would be emotional and uneasy.
So that there will you instead can not understand with good as well as applies not in accordance with what you expect.
The fear of failure will on you.
As well as if you want to swimming in the ocean .If you speculate too long .As: whether the water too cold or go dangerous or not .So you most probably would get out of that bay and only basking in the sand course .Because you have let imagination create chaos .Better take a chance and enter.
3 ) developed a confident. Do not receive the opinion of another just, before you compare with your own opinion.Avoid the temptation to choose the way at least risky and chimed in the people.
Hypothetically own ...! !! !!
Do not talk "manut-manut" (talk: javanese ) many individuals that is supposed to be stable instead be weak and easily drifted.
To be unstable, because he has no confidence that he could easily be right, while others wrong.This kind of people feel possessed, may also inferiority.And lack of confidence when many people condemn him.
4 ) a posture that is not too soft and sentimental always generates an impression the stability and balance .As is the case with all the good , if the content too it will be as to render it better .
( too old , too young , too ripe )this does not mean that we forget the fact that we have forgotten all having the bad qualities.
But the truth is that for these traits not too striking looks , maybe we instead of a favored person because those .What do you have to do is look , whether the bad qualities you can a troubler of the other , or yourself or not.
If the nature of the troubler of another or yourself , then usakan to fix until you able to control it even gets rid of it.
5 ) cast far pattern your children .The first like this , no doubt how of the nature of children adults.
How much at the age of today we influenced by unmannerly emotion and reaction that comes when we is still a child first .Most of the nature of timid and fear .We have basic children .The internet: are many of us are who fear darkness.
A was 40 years old still depends on his mother,so if the mother has not agree with whatever he do or mind , and he will feel bad and fear.
A women aged 30tahun believe , that all men are good , not to be trusted .Opinions shortsighted this is it enjoy for the aunt nourishes and a substitute for his mother who died , is nothing marriage unhappy .Those like this do not steady his personality .They were wrong ' indoktrinasi' wrong drink herbs imposed upon him so just .Without get away with it , if it is not suited her.
6 ) understand circumstances of others .Personality stable is always ready gives a chance to others to developing and industrialized .Only the one who inferiority and they soul dwarf who feel envious and pose a problem .One who stable and strong his personality pretty sure will themselves to compete with a wholesome manner with another .They also did not fawning or embarrasses others .One who stable aware of his power .They live without fear or distinguish.
Their full tolerance .
7 ) disguise personality you .Appearance personality you conclusive not only give a positive effect on others .But also affect unmannerly your own .
for example: what you feel when dressed in long you to travel .Compare reaction you , when using a suit or evening dress graceful .Dressed well , appearance good often similar to whistling in the darkness .Them encourage extra sufficient to overcome tension appear .Walking in the dark while whistling as if increase your courage to fight the mind of a ghost .This is also if wearing apparel fashionable , graceful , good , and the confident you get .Attitude was also important , do not sluggish and listless .Standing , walk and sit with an upright position .Someone always connecting , ' those who gagal' those who appearance personal sluggish not excited.
8 ) see how others apply .Be an observer good for everyone and in their relations a very diverse it .Pelajarilah orang-orang failed .Similarly with person successful .They with personality weak and passive.
And their by personality strong and active.
9 ) be your habit becoming mirrors who you are.Habits can be formed whenever time, during your life.The view that we say that the newly formed at the age of 21 years is not true.
You have to do is to find character, the nature of positive you who favored the people.
Do not stop here, but you have to practise do so.
Do you think that you will know how be the best.When the time comes .... you probably will know, It will it is clear that is not the only you: your habit.
Customs ( good bad / would be taken wherever )
10 ) keep and take care of your health .Health is wealth most valuable , not play with it .Next , she exercising in the open .Enough sleep , avoid eat and drink excessive .Not in doubt again that you will know exactly how improve the health of without a detailed explanation of the diartikel this .Do not forget to ' chek-up' health agencies and your teeth .At least once a year .Of disease often once hidden.
Don't only think that you okay , but rest assured that you are indeed okay.
11 ) always wanted to change .Although the good deed from personality a stable is faith located on the belief , but work mental not always be brilliantly harmonious if himself resisting change.
A stable , therefore sometimes have to person outang self , make the point of view of against him as if he located outside his heart, reflect openly and alert over the others that prejudice.Selfishness not on its own crept into the mechanism intelektual-emosi to pother all,because to be the stable today not mean and ensure continue to be one who stable 10 weeks or 10 years from now .All aspects of occurrence of the world and an environment in which you live always changing from day to.
But it is a sign of success .Ask yourself , do you been accompanied by tersebut.seperti progress that must take place .To be the guy that stable , you have to remain stable .This requires observation that continuous against a state of deep yourself and also the environment outside you.
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